Very good advice from you both Caroline and Hattie. I truly wish that this issue was a simple one, but, it is not. Matters of the heart usually are complicated. At least they always have been for me.
You both made good points about letting go of someone who doesn't want you, or letting go of the past, and living in the present and focusing toward the future. Maybe these things seem so clear when you are not in the middle of this kind of situation, but I am grateful for your comments, and I know you are both spot on.
Thanks for caring. That really comes through from you both. Hugs.