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My bf wants space before getting closer to discuss future: is this healthy or should I worry?


My bf + I together 9 mos. We're both 36. I love him, see a future, get along great, enjoy doing similar things. He says he's never met anyone he can truly feel like himself. We have awesome attraction/chemistry, sex is great! If he doesnt already have plans with his daughter (shared custody with ex), he's w/ me. Lately talking about our future led to talk about $, then his $ worries from ex. She was bad with $, I'm a saver. He loves that, but he's worried still. Honesty is big for us, but he's worried. I've not b married. He wants space now. Huh? How do I deal and still feel close? Its Xmas.

 

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