These type of mind games should be considered child games, ignored and left to be played by the "player". When it comes to anything sincere, the word seem does not exist! Seem has question marks, red flags, and all the things that make your body mind and soul repulsed. This says alot about the person and the image they are trying to portray for you.
P.S. Just remember regardless of what anyone says, red flags are there to warn you and will continuously repeat itself regardless if you want to take heed.