I do sometimes, to avoid any stress but I don’t want people thinking I’m a soft touch.
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This happened to me by a friend I hanged out with for like 16 years. She threw something in my face ( a family matter) She said she would not apologize and that's the end of that. Despite I was sad, God brought me something better two days later.
Hi Cardisa, I know all to well what you mean. I had a dilemma like this a few weeks ago. The person actually went off on me about something I said. Just because she was having a bad day. She wants me to feel bad, but I don't . I WILL NOT APOLOGIZE
my friend refused to apologize so that means the truth did not set her free and she must be spiritually miserable. God punishes those who hurt others and play it off egotisticly that they don't have to when the other has mentioned they were hurt
I hear you rajan. The tricky thing about that is. If you do it one time, people seem to expect you to always be the one to bow down EVEN if they are wrong (sigh). Somebody's going to end up with the short end of the stick..lol
what if the person tells you, that you hurt them and they feel sad. My friend responded that I was too sensitive, I replied have a nice life, I'm not going to take a chance of this selfish person who refuses to apologize to hurt me again.
My friend refused to apologize so I said if she doesn't care that she hurt me means that it can be worse next time. Someone advised me to stay away from her. From things I said to a male friend about the situation, he replied " Pure Jealousy"
I think I understand you, Its easy to target the weak one as my family sees me, but if I am Right I always have to let them be right, : ( oh well.
yea but even ourown family will take advantage of that. Imagine being a girl and being told your wrong even when you know your right. In any case, for a friend you should apologize, for a stranger it depends,
I apologize or I forgive, in my case I forgave but didn't want her around anymore she refused to apologize, but shes Jewish not christian. Jews are not into apologizing or forgiving because it brings them down. Christians are taught to be humble.
This world is full of evil and that is why not too many like to apologize they think it will lower them, but they will pay the price, They will lose your friendship &if they still have anger or jealousy, God will take care of them. BELIEVE ME !!
ok great I agree, but unfortunately everyone here is talking about apologizing if they don't feel they are in the wrong, but what if someone tells you, or texts you that your hurt, all I got from someone was your too sensitive
Agree, however if you take it the other way where 4 me a female did not apologize when I made it clear I was hurt, I moved on.took some time to heal but reward came , 2 days later God helped me to a lifetime friend future husband :D
Only problem was with me, my friend was too up there if u know what I mean. Too stubborn to accept she hurt me. Then when I tried to forgive her but didn't want to have her friendship and told her about God, she and her husband thought I was crazy.
People will think your crazy or too silly. Try to stop that. Gaining weight is nothing you have to apologize for. BEing blamed for things by our family happens to all of us many times, but don't let it run your life
God loves people like you, Too bad the rest of the world is poisoned on worrying about humilation, God be with you and may he always reward you!!!!!
TOO BAD MY FRIEND COULDN'T DO THAT, SHE REFUSED TO APOLOGIZE & DENY SHE WAS WRONG, SHE'S THE ONE LOST, SHE LOST MY FRIENDSHIP & I'M SURE SHE'S INTERNALLY MISERABLE BECAUSE I KNOW SHE LOVED ME AS A FRIEND..
But what if you know you hurt the person, dying with the sin may make you go somewhere you don't want to go. Now some don't believe in God, but I feel sorry for them their in for a big surprise that's scary
God will punish any egotistic man or woman. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. God also will not appreciate you now with that picture, put your pants all the way up! lol
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APOLOGIZE? MAYBE SHE FEARS TO LOSE YOU. I HOPE YOU LOVE HER AT LEAST :D
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