Does it matter what other people say about you when you're out of hearing range. We come across with two-faced people that have developed this sort of lifestyle. Being a "public chameleon" with opinions that are constantly changing depending on who those people are with. Are you like that? Do you know people like that? Do you care what they say or think about you?
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I agree. If I have offended anyone I want to be able to fix it or maybe it helps me deal with them better. I can't stand negative talk behind my back without being able to defend myself and fix the problem.
I LOVE your comment, razor!Especially your 2nd last paragraph.I react harshly to: !. Someone who knows me well &should know better than to believe something "out-of-character" for me.OR 2. A Gossip-Jerk, thinking I blindly believe what they say!
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What someone "thinks of you" or says about you privately is merely their "PERCEPTION" of you, certainly NOT a true reflection of you are or are not. They may see you entirely inaccurately from your authentic self. This is THEIR problem...not yours!