This may not be the answer you are looking for, but I do not trust any adult dating sites. I mean, how can you really?
A person cannot even trust what they read on Facebook, which is a CIA data-base collection program.
People lie about themselves all the time, except for me, that is. Heck, even my niece lies about her age on Facebook and God only knows what else.
Why would you place your trust in Cyber Space?