Society has mostly taught women that it is not ladylike to chase men, although some do it boldly. Women who chase men are sometimes called "whores." This puts many women at a disadvantage. If they observe a good man that they really like, they just hope that he can read their minds and approach them. What a rap for women! I was never as aggressive, but I admire a woman who has the guts to go for what she thinks is best for her. I came from "the old school" and was chosen. I never had the nerves to approach a man, except the ones on a TV screen.