@stigma31 - Just because one is asking a question, doesn't mean that this applies to them or that they are thinking it. I am not, nor have I ever been in this situation ans if I were, I would tell that person to take a hike. I do believe in "until death do us part" and take my vows seriously. There are certain things as affairs that might end it, but even then, not sure as we all are human and make mistakes. But, I do know o individuals who have been in this situation and have taken the bait, jumping from a frying pan to the fire.
@emily sparks, hope I did not offend by the question, I to believe the same, but with so much divorce, I wonder why people marry in the first place, love is not a feeling, but a commitment and money can't by happiness at all.