What Are Some Tell-Tale Signs Indicating That Your Partner May Be Cheating on You?
How to tell if the husband or wife is cheating? What are the signs and red flags to look for to help determine if your partner has been cheating on you?
I think you are better off assuming they are cheating if something doesn't feel right to you. In the end whether it turns out you are right or wrong it will not lead to you being happy in the relationship. The main reason someone suspects their mate is cheating is because of (a change of behavior they have towards us).
It could be they are spending less time with you, not being phyiscally intimate with you, fighting over the slightest of things, showing a lack of consideration for your feelings, Not keeping their word about being where they said they were going to be, seem happier leaving you behind than when they arrive home, there is a sense of joy when they talk to friends or family on the phone that seems to be missing when they talk to you...etc Finding out they are cheating would give us the "aha! That explains it!"
However if we found out they were NOT cheating and all of the above behaviors remained present we would not jump for joy or suddendly become happy about the relationship!
Ultimately finding out our mate is cheating just gives many of us (permission) to end a relationship (we are unhappy in). It's kind of sad that many of us need to be cheated on or verbally/physically abused to give ourself persmission to walk away from a "toxic" or unhappy relationship. I say if a person does not like the way they are being treated, feels neglected, or not having their emotional/physcial needs met, then that is enough to walk away whether you find out your mate is cheating or not. You don't have to wait for the (worst thing) to happen before you can walk away from (an unhappy relationship). "Smelling the smoke and leaving is better than sticking around to see if there is fire."
My ex- found some undies on the floor next to - but not quite out of sight, under - our bed..... She was suspicious....
A couple of weeks later, when she saw the lady who WORE those undies IN OUR BED, she was certain!!!
P.S. Don't you think it is "cheating" for a spouse to come home early when he/she is expected for a couple of more hours?????
It could be times when the spouse says he/she is working over and the paycheck is not proving it. More time spent away from home. Secretive emails.
by lupine 10 years ago
Is it still considered "cheating" in a relationship, if you tell your partner?Some people go out and "cheat" and they tell their spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend, openly they are doing it. Does that make it not cheating if they are not doing it behind their back?
by dashingscorpio 14 years ago
I see so many articles geared towards women concerning signs that indicate whether or not their man may be cheating.They tell you to look for changes in his behavior, his spending more time away from you, starting fights over the smallest of issues, not being where he says he is going to be or with...
by whisperingxwords 12 years ago
What is your opinion on cheating? Is it right or wrong to tell someone you've cheated on them?I'm watching Dr.Drew's Life Changers and it is a very interesting question.
by luisj305 10 years ago
How do "Swingers" manage to stay in a relationship knowing your partner has sex with other people?..Many people have trouble maintaining a relationship where they know that they have been cheated on and usually it ends the very moment they find out someone was cheating, with a phone call...
by Cut The Bullshit 11 years ago
If you saw your best friend's partner cheating, would you tell?
by laswi 11 years ago
Suppose your partner wants to have sex. But due to some reason you are not ready. What do you do?
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