I don't think it's a matter of gender that determines contentment. It's the individual's "expectations". Only the individual can determine what is most important to have in their life. We have all heard of rich and famous people commiting suicide. Therefore money and fame was not enough to make (them) happy. Each of us has our own value system of wants, needs, and desires. Contentement is about having the things that matter most to (you). Nobody gets everything they want whether they are a man or a woman.
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