Really depends how you met.
If you met through a circle of friends or if you have some other regular contact with this person, you're assuredly better off with the handshake. You don't want to gamble too much on an already good reputation and even a peck on the cheek may send the wrong message for how you mean to pace and grow this relationship.
However, if you met this guy cold (I'm not talking temperature) then your option are open. If you're truly the kind of girl that goes after guys for whatever you want and the devil may care how you really feel at the end, then the option is certainly open.
If he was the one that approached you, you can still give him the kiss, but he has to show something that he's after you. It may have been the way he has flirted with you or called you. It might even how he carries himself at the door. It may be even necessary to kiss him on the cheek when he walks through the door. If he's a catch that dates frequently, then a handshake could possibly ruin your chance for another date. He might possibly be the kind of guy that rather to work to gain the interest and attention of a woman expects it suddenly for reasons mostly dealing with his self presentation.
Really, doing this really puts yourself out there to either your success or ruin. The expected norm is for the male to initiate any kind of touch.