Sex is the part of life that God gave us for a reason. Not just the act of it, but the giving and receiving of it mean more than just that. It is the way in which mankind multiplys the earth, so its got to be important to God, the doorway to the entrance of mankind here on Earth is the woman's womb. God never meant for it to be abused, because the bed is a holy place! When God is invited into this relationship of man and woman, as the head of it, something happens that does not happen when God is not a part of it. The marriage is between God, the man, and the woman. It is also a triad, just like the Trinity. When God is in this relationship with you both, you feel complete and fullfilled and at peace. But when He is not there, there is a great emptyness or void that makes you feel that theres got to be more than that! Love is a wonderful feeling and a way of expressing that feeling is being intimate. God meant it to be just that. Love makes the world go round, without it, we would just be robots.