Being preoccupied with activites that require money in order to have a good time. Generally speaking these women want to go, go, go (shopping, vacations, restaurants, and various entertainment outings). The thought of sitting a home in front of the fireplace, sharing a bubble bath, making dinner together, having a picnic for two, other intimate things bores them. Some women will point blank ask a man for money to help with bills or buy them items. A guy knows he's in trouble when he refuses and hears her say, "A (real man) would....etc"
In all honesty everyone is with someone because they have something they admire or desire that makes them feel good. I've never heard of anyone saying I want a person who has absolutely nothing going for themselves! (good looks,very smart, romantic/affectionate, money, power, fame, sense of humor, or engaging personality) all of these attract others. Each of us decides for what are the "must haves" on our "relationship shopping list".
Deep down us men are hypocrites when it comes to the "gold digger" issue. On the one hand we don't want them and yet we strive to succeed in life because (we believe if you are "rich enough" you can have any woman you want!) Note: Any man who has a daughter also wants her to marry a "successful man". He doesn't want her to bring home any guy considers to be a loser no matter how much "in love" she is or how content he may be with winning janitor of the year!