What kind of effect did it have on you, your partner and your relationship with each other? Were you able to save your relationship with your partner? What did it take to earn your trust back? Were they able to gain your trust?
Oh dear, that will be a bad feeling I can understand. Everything depends what kind 'emotional affair' you are talking about. If it is on facebook only, then it may not be that bad that there is no turning back.
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