Broken hearts cause growth - unless you whine forever.
At first a broken heart will throw your mental and physical self out of balance. This is natural because a personal plan for your own life has been altered by someone else .... so it is out of your hands to control.
If you wallow around in self pity for ever, you will never learn a darn thing.
If you learn from the experience you will open your heart to a truth. "No-one ever owns another"
Self love is first and foremost. When you are truly comfortable in your own skin and accept yourself - you will no longer be broken to pieces when a relationship ends... rather you will be grateful for the time spent with that other person.
Sharing time with another on this journey through life is a gift, a lesson to learn or just simply a pleasure.
To hold a grudge is like giving another rent FREE space in your head. Get over it - let go -- GROW and learn to love life and love living!!! Learn to accept and love yourself.
Cheers to a happy you!