I know of a specific case where the woman accused her husband of abusing her but there was never any case of evidence-no bruises, marks, broken bones or anything. No trips to he doctor, police or emergency room. She just wanted an excuse to leave a marriage where she wasn't the boss. Unfortunately, she claimed "abuse" and it seemed like everyone she told, they automatically thought it was true.
She, in fact, was the abuser, telling her now ex husband, on a quite frequent basis, "Is this the day that you die and make me a happy woman?" She also slapped him so hard that he lost his hearing for an hour because he wasn't...well, I won't go into detail but she turned it around and told everyone she could that it was him who hit her. She would also throw glasses so hard at her ex husband that the glass shards are STILL in the woodwork and this happened almost 20 years ago but yet SHE"S the abused one?