Yes, men do wonder where a relationship is going. However, women often want to know where things are going right now. It sounds like you may be wondering what your special someone is feeling about you. Over time, a man's actions and words will tell you how he feels... It is never a good idea to press him into declaring his intentions too quickly. Time will tell.
On the other hand, if you have been dating for more than a year and he remains casual or standoffish, it may be time for you to move on to someone who is more appreciative and intrigued with you. You will know when a man is intrigued because he will be eager to pursue you no matter whether you have children in your life or a divorce in your past.
I do not know what you mean in using the word "indecision." Are you indecisive or is he? Either way, perhaps the time has come for someone to make a decision. Frankly, if a man cares, he will say so. Men are not that complicated. Either they love you or they don't. Trust you gut.