My wife I love not because she is 'dreamy' or anything, not that I don't dream about her or anything, but because she is extremely important to me. She helps me mentally and loves to take care of me. I am what you would call 'a big lug' in the 90s. Whereas I got all the heart but none of the sensibilities LOL She evens that out.
Though she is much smaller then me, I bet that woman would carry me to the hospital if I was sick and I bet she wouldn't ask a thing of it. I love to take care of her too and she brings out my urge to protect her because she is... well... mine LOL Not in a primal sense but I feel she needs to be careful not to get hurt and sort of like shes the flower in a volcano - you know?
A great part is that she knows I would do the same in return, and take care of her if ever she needed taken care of. What I do is sloppy, and in luck mostly, but she will guide me along the best she can because she is loving like that.
I really would never give her up for anything in this world.