Actually, yes. My first marriage was the complete opposite of what I wanted which is why it ended. But this one is exactly what I wanted!!
When I was a teenager I had dreams about my future husband. I never saw his face clearly, and sometimes it was just a sillhoutte, but he had dark black hair, and blue eyes. He was very tall, and fit. He was kind, funny, altruistic, and intelligent. This description fits my husband perfectly!