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Is it normal to NOT feel sadness after a breakup?


I just recently ended a 3 month relationship and a everyone who finds out has asked in a somber tone "awww...how are you" but honestly I don't feel sad at all. My best friend suggested that I go sit on someone's couch because the lack of emotion that I show in regards to men is "not normal." What do you think???

 

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    Zazo 3 years ago

    That's normal.

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    Ellana317 5 years ago

    LOL... I agree. I told my friend the exact same thing. Wev'e known each other for about 3 years but that doesn't count...LOL.

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    Ellana317 5 years ago

    Thanks for your input dgbrh... I will be honest in saying that I have no ill feeling towards him. I think that he was an amazing man just perhaps not the one for me. I'm sure we'll remain friends but thats about as far as it goes.

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    Ellana317 5 years ago

    Yes, I definitely believe it was the right thing to do. Niether of us were as happy as we could've been so I might have to see him next lifetime... ;-)

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    Ellana317 5 years ago

    Kallini2010~ Thanks for your response. You have definitely required me to do some soul searching. It is VERY possible that I am only making myself accessible to people who can't really hurt me. Interesting... Quite an "aha moment."

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    Ellana317 5 years ago

    LOL... Thanks for your input. Some might say too strong but with my being a single mother and raising a little boy, there isn't much room for weakness. :-)

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    Sanjana mallick 3 months ago

    Yes its true attachment n love is entirely different thing n we become sad when the bond of attachment is strong..n attachment grows with time..3 month is very short so itsnatural

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    Kenerek (Kay-Cee Inspires) 10 months ago

    You just have to be strong and move on