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How do you handle spousal abandonment?


One month ago today, my husband decided not to come home from work and literally left me hanging with all our bills and a mortgage!!!!! My heart is broken to say the least. I have not heard from him. I have so many unanswered questions. Right now, I have a lot of self doubt, anger and bitterness within me. I ask myself, what part did I play in him leaving? All I can do is to pray for things to get better.

 

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    nina64 5 years ago

    Nightwork4, I appreciate your comments. I've had a lots of time to look within myself to find out why this happened. It could be any number of reasons. Like you stated, it's time for me to move on with my life and live for me and my kids.

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    nina64 5 years ago

    Dear Duffsmom, as of today, I haven't heard anything from him. He quit his job & moved to another state. I had his cell phone turned off because I found out that he was calling everyone else except me. When I tried to call him, he refused my call


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    nina64 5 years ago

    Hello Mick5, That very well may be the case. If so, better her than me!!!!!! Just know that the grass is not always green on the other side.


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    nina64 5 years ago

    Aunt Mollie, thank you for your comments & suggestions. I did file a police report; but I did find out that he was ok. I checked his cell phone log and found that he called everyone but me. I did leave messages, but he wouldn't take my calls. I'm