I know this is a sensitive question, but I am curious if (as I meet many who settled for what they can get and then complain about it) rather than take some time to find our best match. Does fear of rejection, loneliness and losing out affect the speed with which we find our partner?
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very true, Martie. Very True. Wise AND gorgeous.
yes- there may be gender differences and how and why we seek our partners.
wonderful- I also wonder how much of it is the way we are brought up and conditioned- if we are compromising, easy going, willing to encourage good and forgive the less than good, perhaps it is a great match of halves.
I would like to mention, We never compromise. Compromise gives a little dissatisfaction at the end. We differ but we accept one another's opinion willingly so we enjoy a healthy and contented relationship with full of self respect.
A 'positive compromise' is as you say rightly, the willingness to accept each other's opinions. I didn't mean it in a negative sense where we 'put up' with dissatisfaction :-)
All the very best in your search!