Alright so I have had this friend since I was eleven. She was what you would call a "best friend", But a couple of months ago things starting getting rough and well she starting lying to me, and not sticking to her word. What was I supposed to do? I got upset, I didn't yell or get mad I simply brought up the issue and well she basically ran the other way with her hands over her ears. This would be the 4th or 5th time it has happened with me brushing it off, untill I finally couldn't take it anymore and got mad. That was nearly two months ago and we haven't spoken a word since.
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Efficient Admin, I agree with you. When we hate it becomes our way of "holding on". Letting go gives us peace of mind. Not all friendships or relationships were meant to last forever.
I suppose your right, I just have so much disgust and hate for this person and at least some explanations or closure would be fine. Its as if we were never friends at all. I just don't understand how someone could just cut someone loose so easily. :(
Virginia Lea, I believe the need for closure is one major difference between men and women. It doesn't change the end result nor does it make one feel better for having been hurt. The thing one person hates about us another person will love.
One way or another I have already lost her. It's kind of a long story and this may sound harsh but I'm ok with it just being totally over forever. It's a really REALLY long story. Just shoot me a message of you want to know. :) Thanks for the comment
I understand your choice, believe me. And I don't blame you. I just wanted to give you all the options and possible consequences. But as long as you are in piece with this subject and this choice, it's alright :)