I have noticed on television as well as in my actual life that many men as well as my guy friends have a hard time letting go of a relationship. Some are willing to cheat instead of saying its over. This is not true for all men, so what makes it so hard to let go?
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Agreed. You obviously don't have an issue with letting go, how as a man did you arrive here or were you always that way?
After the 2nd heart break I realized that I didn't want to repeat the time wasting routine of self pity that happened after my 1st heart break... Too many men avoid even trying after that 1st heart break... I like girls too much to do that routine.
Thats a good way to be some people are what I call gluttons for punishment. I commend you on that.
I think this is true for some jacked dudes (I know a few, lol.) I just think they should be honest and keep it moving, because it only prolongs misery.
Thanks i agree with you. 2 cents well received~!
THAT IS SUCH A COPE OUT THOUGH. SMH. GUESS GUYS ARE PRISONERS OF THEIR OWN INSECURITIES. :( LEAST THERE ARE SOME LIBERATED MEN, OF WHICH ARE TRUSTWORTHY!
bittvan22, I was not offering any "justifications" or "defenses" but simply stating why I think (both men and women) would rather not go through messy breakups. Anyone who has watched "Cheaters" or The Maury Povich Show is aware women cheat too.
NO WOMAN CHEATS!...... lol. wish I could see your face when you read that one. I know you were, just wanted to spice it up a little bit, lol. I hubbed on female empowerment since disrespect is so prevalent from both sides. ;)
brittvan22, You are a handful! Love your sense of humor! I think I will go read one of your hubs! :-) I'm all about awareness and self-empowerment. Google my book. My Cat Won't Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany)
ok thanks i'll check u out 2, lol. im a virgo thats expected!
As if getting caught cheating is a much more peaceful, humane way. Give me a break. lol