I know I do! As a married man, I handle them in three ways:
- When I get a crush on my wife (once again), I act on it.
- When I get a crush on another woman (occasionally) I bring the energy back home to my wife
- Always, I laugh and enjoy my humanity
That takes a lot of self-discipline!
Other men may not handle crushes so well. After all, the classic image of the man with the mid-life crisis, the young girlfriend, the red sports car, and the divorce is all about two crushes (on the girl and the car), handled badly!