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Is it normal to still be upset by an ex-hubbys activities 4 years after a painful split?


I loved my husband dearly, more than anything in the world next to my kids. We split up 4 years ago because he was longtime cheating and I had had enough. I was devastated and really hurt by it all. That was 4 years ago and yet, here I am still hurt and being hurt. What is wrong with me? Why am I not over it all? I can't even bring my self to talk to him civil without the emotional upset. I feel like I am still in the marriage with him. What he does now shouldn't bother me but it does.

 

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