I've never cheated but I've been cheated on (twice) and I was wondering, for those who are willing to share, why did you cheat? Or, if you were the one cheated on, do you know why they did it?
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Even though I've never cheated, I know there are some who deserve it. If you mistreat your partner, you can't expect them to remain loyal.
You have a point, but does that make the new found cheater a better person or worse than the first?
I think you did the right thing.
I can relate. That's exactly why I was cheated on the first time.
I agree with you completely. I'm one of those people who has the set of morals that you just DON'T cheat no matter what. If you're with someone you are faithful.
I agree. Do you think that it's possible to forgive and move on when someone has cheated? I have and my relationship has grown stronger since then but I know not all people can do it. What do you think?
Of course it's possible to forgive and forget. Neccessary even. Held grudges will eat away at you like a cancer. Life is too short to be tied down by another person's behaviour.
Forgiveness is important, but it depends on how and why it happened. My husband cheated on me while he was in Brazil (works in ships). He was 26, insecure and mixed up. We're still in love after 26 years, but it took me years to recover.
I think this is one of the most common reasons people cheat. A drastic difference in sexual expectations puts lots of pressure on a relationship.
It is very dificult to create an even base of sexual relations between two individuals. One could be sexually anorexic, and another a sex addict. The relationship would definately end quick at that point.
I understand too, but the best thing to do is to face the problem with the other person and if nothing changes send him home to mother.
His mother was the most frightening women I've ever met. Hopefully, I never see that woman again.
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