There are times when you are in the "middle of it all' and you don't want to take side. What is the best advice when dealing with problems between your spouse and parent or relative?
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I hope you forgive my 'meddling' but I care about couples being happy. I bet you anything it was your mother who started the whole anti-civility. As a mother and mother-in-law to be, I know that a lot of the time it's how we speak to others that bugs
So what if you find the real issue? then what? That doesn't solve anything. My husband and mom don't get along simply because they're so different and if that's the issue and neither can be changed then it's still going to be difficult between them.
True izetti but you can't try to remain indifferent. If it's your husband who isntigates rude behaviour speak in private and let him know that woman raised you to the person he fell in love with. For your sake he must be patient. Same with your mom.