For those of you in a relationship, what's the one thing (or multiple things) that you miss about being single? I miss being able to listen to music while going to sleep. My boyfriend likes complete silence, I like music. But I don't play any so that I don't disturb him.
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The kids thing is tricky. But atleast me and my boyfriend agree that we don't want kids. If it happens, it happens but we aren't trying. We like our non-parent hobbies and activities too much lol.
Ha! I absolutely adore my kids, but they certainly impact your ability to be spontaneous or really to do anything "for yourself" (besides enjoying your children, of course!)
Lucky for me, my boyfriend likes to sleep in on his days off. So we both get to sleep late, heh. I think falling asleep with music is the only thing I miss. But I'm perfectly fine with giving it up. I'd wear headphones if they didn't bother my ears.
I understand this, but in a different view. My boyfriend wouldn't care, but I can't do my own thing anymore. Because I moved over 1,000 miles away so I could be with him. So all my family and friends are back home, & I don't know many people up h
lol I get this one, for sure. :P
You might think relationships aren't necessary, and maybe they aren't for you.
But I am happier than I ever have been in my life with my boyfriend, even more than when I was single. I wouldn't trade it back for anything. :)
Maybe you just need to find a not needy girl! :) Seriously, I can respect someone's decision to be single, but I would caution against ruling out relationships because of a few bad apples!
lol :p i'm not blaming the girls i've been with. i'm sure they would have been great in relationships with other guys. it's just me. i'm just not cut out to be a boyfriend.
And some guys arent lol. I know a few who are happier not in a relationship.
Being single has his pro's and con's and so does being in a relationship.
Its a choice that everyone have to do. If in your situation the pro's and con's of being single outweight the pro's and con's of being in a relationship then go for it.
I've tried different kind of headphones, but they just dont work for me. Every kind I've tried has hurt my ears & just gives me a headache. I use to just let my music from my laptop play. Its not something I mind giving up for him, I just miss it
Hahaha! I like the wearing the Same sweater part. I don'T Miss being single .i like living double ,ha ha ha with
particular benefits.who says nobody can have the best Of bOth worlds. carpe diem and catch it while you can.
No, I couldn't imagine not sleeping with my boyfriend. The comfort and enjoyment I feel being in his arms is way better than the mild joy I get from listening to music. Music is no where near that important to me.
I'm glad you say that and enjoy your relationship!
I love him very much, lol. I miss listening to music at night, yeah. But I have no problem giving it up (Or a lot of other things for that matter) if it means being with him. :)