Which is the best way to seek and find a partner for life, when you are over 40? You don't want to hang out at parties or bars anymore, internet is full of fake and less serious dating. How did you get to know your partner after 40?
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I am not deeply looking, but I observed that it has become more difficult nowadays and it is interesting to hear how others found their partners at later age.
Very true. Many individuals I know get married twice, then finally find the perfect partner later into their life.
mdiggs1234, thanks for your contribution to this question. Well, it is not that I am desperate or whatsoever, it's more a question out of curiousity to see how others deal with this issue, since things have changed so much.
I have done online dating years ago and met some nice guys, but none of them lasted forever. Nowadays online dating is absolutely a horror and filled with fake guys. Changing myself for someone I "imagine" would be perfect doesn't make sense to me.
Ingodshands777, you have a very interesting point of view and I agree with you in many ways. Actually I learned a lot from my past about me, and about what I need in the other one....wrote hubs about it. And I believe in God and his guide....
The hardest part is in the journey towards total peace, is the dying to one's flesh. I play the Native American Flute, and when I am playing, my flesh is dead, it is total spirit, although the song's do come from both heart, and spirit.