It was full of people and I would not say the comment was really welcome. Yes, I did gain weight, I have to admit, not that much... She did not mean to insult, but I would not consider it to be a compliment either.
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Let me try: "Thank you for bringing my attention and everybody else's that the gain is noticeable by now. I let myself go. But, honestly, I am so sick now that I have to let it be for the moment. I'll gain some more, but I'll stay positive. And fat"
I kind of agree with you. It is a rude thing to say in front of others however we can shut down and get hostile or we can look at it as a wakeup call. Sometimes that little shove can get us making better choices. It isn't right, but make lemonade.
I thought I was cool enough by saying: "Yes, I have. And now I have this delicious curvy figure!" But everybody else was so tense about it - that it was palpable. These people were strangers, so it is hard to know what is best answer and when...
Lucky you to be so thin and comfortable with your figure; however, I think the questioner - like most women - is weight sensitive.
Thank you and I noticed that guys are attracted to women with large body parts. It does not bother me because I not interested in their wild desires. So that may be why I do not get insulted when someone try to be malicious..