It may not be considered as cheating by some but it is definitely immature. What's the point of saying those vows, what's the point in bonding, what's the point of loving, much less getting married!!! Was it for convenience, less bills, or maybe no bills, no more tedious responsibilities. You could have stayed single and flirted for the rest of your life with no problem. It seems like you want to have your cake and eat it too. You want to play the field, but when it comes to having someone by your side for whatever reasons you desire, being married to who you are with fits the bill!
As for your entertainment it should consist of things that your better half can be involved with as well. What if your flirting goes further and you get caught up. PLEEEEEEEEEEEASE you people forever seeking to condone your slackness!!!!!!!!!!!
Marry someone who is aware of who you truly are and doesn't mind your extra curricular activities and maybe your match will be one truly made in heaven
Vonda G. Nelson