Are women genetically wired to be patient while men are are more impulsive by nature and their impulsiveness comes from the time they were hunters? Where the reaction speed was the question of survival?
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I would also say both men and women go through phases in their life. Most men will not consider marriage until after they establish a career. Ms. Right Now are women he meets during that period. It's timing. Sexual equality is not bad in of itself.
I would say men don't consider marriage until later, where most women look for it much sooner. Timing is key to settling down. I do believe you have a point...there is sexual equality and it's both the man and woman that make the choice.
Girls are conditioned to be "mothers" and boys are not conditioned to be "fathers" by the toys they grow up playing with.
lupine, Yes, boys are not "conditioned" nor "expected" to be "nurturers". If we say "practice makes perfect" then it is girls who have the most practice of being a parent. Boys don't play daddy. We gain interest later in life. One man's opinion! :-)
Dashingscorpio - I wanted to thank you for your thought-out and detailed answer - one suggestion - in the future if your answer runs such a length, it would be more beneficial for you to claim it as your own hub. Cheers!
You are exactly right, I know men that have had that type of right-away-relationship and they do say that's not the type woman they will marry. Like the saying goes...two wrongs don't make one right.
Desperate, loose or really stupid? I'd say wake up and welcome to the world of women who choose to be Ms. Right away for a while.
Like I said before....Mr Right Now worked perfeclty for me for some years but I never qualified as a gold digger:-)
In this case, they both found the right one. Both looking for the same thing...marriage.
Those Mr. Rights? Yeah, not so easy to find lol
Nor Ms. Rights LOL
At this point any right lol
Still waiting :)
Well, I don't know what to tell you...get in line LOL...I was there first
In that case, we must be very close to one another on line? LOL
From the looks of these comments you are right behind me! LOL....but I guess we can be in the same spot because you want a woman and I a man...so we don't have to trip over each other's feet to get to the next available one..:)
:) Just stand far enough away they don't bypass me thinking I am taken LOL
LOL Will do
See Garifalia. I fooled you. I am from Mars. I just changed to fit in with you Earthlings. Compare our answers. Men are from Mars and women from Venus.
No my friend, you're not from Mars. You make perfect sense!
Yes, guys were are from the same planet and we all can learn and be conditioned to look for Right or Right Away. It is harder to resist good sex for a woman who has experienced it at least once. Talk about RIGHT NOW!!!
Being of a particular age and experience, I can say that when men meet Mrs Right, they forget about Mrs Right Away and know how to wait. But it takes a while for many, if not most to mature to that point. It's the male sex drive and brain function.