The question 'can I love again' I presume you mean your wife. Apparently your union with the woman you married was premature. if it were the right union, you would not be after another woman. Firstly you should consider whether it is worth trying to stay with your wife, especially if there are children involved. If you believe it is worth it to try and save your marriage, you should then think about why you fell out of love with her. That initial infatuation with your woman is supposed to wear off and a deeper understanding and appreciation take over. If on all those accounts the answer is positive and your wife is a kind-hearted person, then think about all those things that attracted you to her in the first place. Good luck and good, long, hard thinking.