Even if it were “natural,” there’s nothing innocent or harmless or healthy about older men pursuing ceaselessly younger women. The cost is high to everyone involved. While a few young women may be attracted to much older guys (often because they falsely imagine themselves to be “so much more mature” than “other girls” their age) .What do you think?
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I think 10 or 15 years difference is not much if you are especially in the thirtieth.Satisfying women has nothing to do with size.takes more than height to make a great basketball player, and more than biceps to make a standout football star.
Maybe an 18 yr old would think a 33 yr old man is too old.. but personally I think he would be in his prime.. matured, has life experiences,and can help her..also the older you get, age differences seem to dissolve..
you are a wise and intelligent real woman. I would love to have met you , there are few women that have your real perspective on life . I could very easily fall in love with you for your mind . Let me write you some poetry.
Honestly,when I first was watching a movie : Autumn in New York by Richard Gere and Winona Ryder,I couldnt continue the watching .It was about an old man , falls for a young woman who looks like granddaughter .That s why I said earlier it s unnatural
Dear cleaner, I agree with you. Attraction is not based on finance(money) or in age preference. It is based on mental attraction, it may occur due to nice words, helps, friendship and so many such ground. Old people will, I think, more trust worthy.
'Attraction is not based on finance'? well, all the young girls with sugar dadies must be an illusion then. The only old guys I know with young girls are loaded.
There are many types of attraction.In this case,only finance which attracts girls to old men.Have you ever seen a young girl with an old poor guy?and how could a girl bear the diaper changes and being nurse ?
Beautiful, @Rosana Modugno. My wife and I got married 5 years ago (27+57). I'm not rich, but I am spiritual. And we're still deeply in love. And isn't love all that matters?
Need i add more...you are awesome!!! How i can share this Rosana?
As Paramore says:Maybe you are the only exception :)
Sorry,I didn t mean to offend anyone here.I d like to say more but i think I should write a hub about it,so we can discuss this issue there.
lone77star,this sounds like my boyfriend and i. I love it when i find people who are in the same league as we are,and those who aren't,we respect each other's thoughts.I wish you all the best with your wife.
I think the 15 years difference is ok but more No.
How older are you than her.If you dont like to answer ,It s okey .I understand.I m just curious and I don t mean any offence.
Beautiful, @edhan. And I do find @James-wolve's questions offensive. True love is a beautiful thing. Sad that so many are so quick to judge and never think of love.
First of all,There is no true or fake love.There is only love .The real everlasting love is God.The only one who loves us for who we are and whatever we do.He is always there when we need him.Human s love is defective and flimsy..
She is a few months older than me!
Few months or years the gap is no problem,but huge it is.
We guys aren t jealous.it's just prostitution with another label.
Let's face it women of this sort won't hang around for the old man's cancer treatments or diaper changes., these women are just emotionless gold digger
@stclairjack, beautifully put.
@James-wolve, you're full of crap. You must not have ever heard of "love." I guess the concept is just too deep for you.
some of us seem awfully wrapped up in diapers and cancer,.... life is more than the ending,... life is best off lived rather then wasted in the life long contemplation of death,.... if you only thought of shitting you'd never eat.
Of course there are but it s probably looking for a father figure.
Security and monetary appreciation is important to most women.But I found it weird and Just a passing note:
The press and governments in the UK and US for years have been anti old younger relations funny that it has now become acceptable .
Normal and Healthy. There will always be a percentage that won't agree, that's okay to have an opinion! Their friendship and happiness is what makes their relationship..shine!
Yes,It s frightening.I suggest to read if you have time a book talks about it.It s very interesting .. I m sure you won t put it down till you finish it.it s called Sugar Daddy Diaries: When a Fantasy Became an Obsession by Helen Croydon.
@lburmaster, so you live in a world without love? Curious!
No. My parents have been together for 25 years. The biggest age difference I've seen is 12 years between a married couple which is my marriage. Once you can be their children, it turns into a frightening matter.
we are not judging people her or scaring these women off going out with older men:)
It was not my intent to say "we" are judging people here. I was saying that when I see it in public, I try not to judge, but my gut response overrules my intent. ":)"
You right.I got your point,Sorry:)
Its about what two people are feeling for each other. Intimate and Personal. It may be awkward to you but it is accepted socially today. As they love each other, that's what counts!
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