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I think its great that you are aware of abusive behavior warning signs.
Yeah I have not dated some men because of their upfront actions.I believe people show you who they are long before the concealment disappears. Yeah, but this would be number 2 Racist and using inappropriate terminology like the N word.
I went out with a guy for a couple months once, but when we were in Georgia (and mind you I may be white but my kids are bi-racial and my closest friend was black) He was saying it a lot. I grew up in Los Angeles cali and its NOT OKAY w/me so bye by
I think in some ways you are right, but what about the fact they don't put any emphasis on actual dating, and jump into relationships instead of building a foundation of friendship, trust, honesty, loyalty first?
I think this observation just appeals to what I have seen. There are some people out there that do not get why some of us think dating is sort of boring and an exercise in futility. I would rather have a friend and then something more with someone.
If I was out on a date with any guy who did any of these things I would run home and forget waiting for the cab. I love your answer. The truth is some guys actually do these things and expect us to stick around. Lisa
I'm a guy and I shouldn't be commenting here but I just wanted to say #4 is a real charmer...
He sure was a charmer - during the meal he explained to me he had finished with his ex-girlfriend because she was a very selfish person :)
LMAO THAT SNOT situation I would have done it back to him and left!!!!
Oh my - this made me a little sick. Did you stay for the rest of the date or just exit gracefully?
I think if it were me I would have made a scene about what his mother taught him as a child before I ran out the door and far away.
People like that exist. wow That 1st guy was gross the 2nd is common to come by.
Thank you...I don't walk away from people with different religion, diff culture, race, ethinic background, political views etc...I want a man that treats me right, with respect, is honest, is intelligent, is grounded, has a career and maybe college
I really like your list. Hopefully, no one guy will do all of these things, but any of them would have me running out the door. Thanks, Lisa
Oh Lisa, I have the luck to have not only run into someone like this but many and I dated them and they were lying about who they were and ended up having all these traits and more...lol thats why I have been single for two years now
Thank god no one has ever thrown up on me! I don't mind if they casually check out other woman as long as they include me in it so I can say they have to much makeup on or something lol
I appreciate your answer...I think you stated it very clearly and its very insightful.
Can I be honest, you do not sound like a picnic to date either. I would hope that any future women you date you can figure out if the two of you have enough in common politically before going to out to dinner. I do not think anyone loves abortion.
And sorry, I did not know what you mean by women having a "victim mentality". Why does this sound like sour grapes? Just saying..
I have to point out its actually flattering when you know a man is attracted to you and wants to have sex with you, but there are ways to go about it and there is a flattering way and a vulgar way...
victim mentality in man yeah hate it.
victim mentality for anyone I hate it...I could have chosen to live my life a victim god knows I would have earned the right but WHY? Pity Parties? Attention? lol I take Survivors in my life
Re no. 4. Most women would rather not be a piece of meat. If you only want sex, find a woman who only wants YOU for sex. Maybe this one wants a relationship, and the last thing she needs is a guy who thinks sex is all she's good for.