love is not suppose to hurt, the only time "Love' hurts is when you Love the wrong person. You have given your heart and soul to a fool, a fool that is immature and maybe a fool that has no idea what Love is and maybe at that point in their life just can't handle it. BTW: Love is a connection that takes place betwen two people not some emotion that pops up after relations. For future reference, when loving an individual be sure you know who they are first! So you are prepared mentally as well as spiritually for whatever takes place. Nothing is wrong with loving a fool, neither is anything wrong with loving someone who is immature. But being being reckless with your heart/ soul is very wrong, because if you are not strong enough to deal with the pain---Whatever you experience from the experience WILL destroy you.
Vonda G. Nelson