Sounds like the basis for a good Glen Frey song:
"...Are you going to stay with the one who loves you
or are you going back to the one you love.
Someone's going to cry when they know they've lost you
and someone's going to thank...the stars above."
If I were a selfish sort, I would think that it would be in my best interest to get married to one that loves me. But, seeing how I am not a selfish sort...I would rather marry a woman that I fully adore.
Too bad I cannot have it both ways, because it would sure be great to adore someone and be adored right back. Knowwhatimean?