Have you ever felt stuck in a relationship and the only way out is the hard way? How would you go about ending such a relationship?
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The right way....always the hard way...but the best way. Am still summing up enough strength to do it and I totally agree with you that honesty is the right way to go...hard, but right. Thanks for sharing you thoughts.
Thanks. U have it up very well. I agree that I have been racking my brains too hard about this whole thing. It would so much easier if I just took the high road and ended it as it is. thanks again for sharing.
cuttler - you are very welcome! Did you ever think that maybe she no longer wants to be in a relaltionship, but doesn't know how to tell you?
I once tried breaking up with someone over email and it did not go down well. I think your second suggestion is much better, though it is the hardest coz then one has to deal with the tears and heartbreak firsthand. Thanks for the suggestion.
Thanks Duffsmom...always hard to break up with someone but sometimes it is for the better....thanks again for your suggestion...I highly appreciate it
True, the dynamics of this situation can really change. One minute you are reading the breakup speech n before you know it the speech turns from breakup to reconciliation.
Thanks Renee...my only hope is that we can leave it on good terms of understanding and mutual respect towards each other. Actually the questions you mentioned have been running in my mind but I think its about time I stood my ground. Thanks again
Anytime. Believe me, I've asked myself those a few times. I think that is why it was so easy to answer the question. I wish you well, whatever your decision.
Thanks Iburmaster...I just hate to think of how it would be if I broke up with her only for her to bump into her everyday at work. Lucky for me we are worlds apart and I can easily go off grid from her and wait it out. Thanks again
Thank you so much for your kind words. I can't wait to get this heavy load off my back and breath a sigh of relief. For long I have feared what it will do to her but in the end I realised that if am not happy then I can't make her happy. Thanks again
You're very welcome. I really hope you'll be able to breath a sigh of relief as soon as possible....
The answers here are just amazing. Its just great how HP provides us with more than a writing platform but also some form of social meeting place.
ronhi - There is lot's of good advise here. Don't make it any harder for yourself or the person you want to break-up with. You will have to be strong and polite. Maybe they want to break-up to, but can't do it either.