Sometimes when I am upset I can get a little crabby or pouty with my boyfriend, but I am quick to apologize and I never intentionally try to hurt someone else just because I am angry. Is it fair to let your loved one hurt because you are hurting?
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Yeah, I agree. When I am stressed or unhappy I just try to look at the positive things in my life. It's hard sometimes because I do have to fave a lot of negativity, but the last thing I want is to make other people really suffer just because I am.
I think for me what hurts the most is when someone I care about withdraws because they are unhappy. All I want to do is help make them feel better and it makes me feel useless when they don't let me.
I try to hide it the best I can when I am upset. Sometimes I will vent but I never make things seem like as big of a deal as they are because I don't want people who care about me to hurt.
I used to be really good a hiding how I feel, but last few months found myself being very low and venting at the wrong people, witch in turn has made me very emotional, it's difficult to break that cycle one it starts