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Do you tell on a cheater?


If you know for a fact (proof of some kind) that a friend/acquaintance is cheating on another friend/acquaintance do/should you tell the cheater, the cheated or not get involved?

 

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    Cat (Cantuhearmescream) 4 years ago

    Would you find yourself having a hard time confronting the cheater about his/her cheating and insisting he/she fesses up?

    -Sometimes the cheater/cheated sees you as having an "opinion" after they/ve long forgiven the other half.


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    Cat (Cantuhearmescream) 4 years ago

    That is the exact thought process I was flirting with. Is it not our obligation when we are not super close with someone to tell them? Others may say wrong is wrong and it needs to be exposed? I appreciate your absolute answer.

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Elizabeth (rainpurplewine) says

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    Cat (Cantuhearmescream) 4 years ago

    I once hesitated to tell my brother-in-law about his wife's affair but eventually did. I was close with both of them but felt guilty watching him unaware. He was crushed and I helped support him through a seperation... only for them to resolve later

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    Cat (Cantuhearmescream) 4 years ago

    Thanks MarieAlana1,

    I don't think I would hesitate to tell a friend, but does it get hairy when you are only acquaintances with a couple? Or do you still tell?


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