One of my friend is in a very frustrating situation. Don know how to support her. Is it possible to stop loving some one you cared a lot ? Any help..guidance?
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Thank you very much. Detail is not possible to mention here as its a little long story may be and apart from all its not my own thing to say. Take care. I agree with you.
Thanks and quite practical advice here.
You know what that is a great way of putting it. I love that quote "when one person is cursed, two graves are dug". that is so so so true.
its like the evil/criminal/satan always falls in his own trap always. They wont admit it but they do.
The opposite of love is NOT hate but "indifference". If you can get to the point where the person you knew evokes the same level of emotion as being around a stranger that is success. "I don't care" has less emotional connection than "hate" does.
@Rayne123: Thank you. Yes, it is like karma in some ways.
@dashingscorpio: That's true. That line "The opposite of love is NOT hate but "indifference" --somewhat reminds me of my Religion teacher back in highschool.
Thank you all here @Rayne123, dashingscorpio, creyziness.....! its interesting speculation and i agree with the whole analysis pretty well. Hope you all have a great day ahead.
dashingscorpio, I agree with your comment also...about hate. If you don't want to continue loving and have hatred toward him/her, that doesn't help your hurting.Hating takes even more effort in a negative way. The 'don't care' level is easier on you.
Oh quite a heartfelt reply here. Thank for your view.
many thanks for your spiritually enlightened reply here. If one can really get the true freedom then no earthly depression can touch the person. I do agree here.
Yes. I like you and I thought that you knew. I empathise. Human chains are so difficult to break!
Thank you but its for one my closest friend. I am fine and thanks for your concern here. Take care.
Many thanks for you took your time to reply here. I appreciate all the individual views here. So it is your view and I agree with you.
Thank you for your kind reply here. Nobody wants to stop loving. That comes out of intolerable hurt, bitter truth and frustration only. Take care.
Many thanks for sharing your vies here. I agree with you very much.
I couldn't agree more with your comment about friendship. If you find that love that is your best friend.....marry them!!...don't let them go.....and always let them know what that combination of friend and lover means to you!
Absolutely Dexis. Thank you for your kind words.
Many thanks for your reply and view here.