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Do you get angry if your boyfriend/spouse looks at other women?


Assuming he doesn't do it in front of you, is looking harmless? Would you want him to be honest about it if he does or keep it to himself?

 

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    Michael Valencia (SoundNFury) 4 years ago

    Thank you, ii3rittles. I think you hit on a key aspect with the distinction of finding someone attractive versus being attracted TO them. The latter would imply that some kind of action is going to happen (flirting or worse). Excellent answer :)

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    Michael Valencia (SoundNFury) 4 years ago

    By "lustful thoughts" do you mean thinking about her, as in fantasies? If he were honest and told you he had these thoughts, how would you react? (with anger, or hurt, etc?)

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    Michael Valencia (SoundNFury) 4 years ago

    hahahaha yup I think that makes it pretty clear! :)

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    Michael Valencia (SoundNFury) 4 years ago

    I'll take that as a resounding yes. lol, thank you.


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    Cat (Cantuhearmescream) 4 years ago

    Oops Michael, thought you should know your tongue is hanging out of your mouth... I'm not sure if you'll understand me with that glazed look on your face :-)


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    Michael Valencia (SoundNFury) 4 years ago

    Thank you kereeves3. You bring up an interesting point about if it was the same person. I can definitely see that becoming a problem.

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    savvydating 4 years ago

    Amen, Tenila. If he stares, he'd best not do it on my time. Staring is disrespectful. Period. But glancing? Well, some people are so gorgeous we can hardly help but take several discreet glances. I have.

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    Michael Valencia (SoundNFury) 4 years ago

    Do you believe that he should not be attracted to other women at all, or that he just shouldn't look? Does it feel threatening if he looks?


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    Cole Ikerd (coleikerd) 4 years ago

    Awesome answer. Each relationship is it's own blend of two people. It's beautiful when that blend creates a bond of trust.


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