Both people in the relationship feeling truly fulfilled, happy and loved. Knowing that they can't fulfill every need the other has, but knowing that they fulfill the most important one - to be loved without question, under any circumstance that life my throw at the two of you and resting safely in the surety of one another's love. Being each other's cheerleader and biggest fan. Never making your partner feel less than who they are.
I think the mistake people sometimes make is forgetting that in the complexity of the most important relationship of your life, with so many things pushing and pulling at you from so many different directions - never ever forget that you aren't machines - you are people with wants and needs and this includes keeping things interesting, growing constantly and most of all FUN! No one likes to feel they have stopped growing or are forced into a box. Life is a miracle at any age, and love that survives and continues to bloom is a blessing. The perfect relationship is one that acknowledges the gift of another soul who chooses to spend life with you every single day - and that goes for each side. Life happens...and we go along with it. Live consciously. Kubiando and Namaste! Erin
Your relationship doesn't have to be perfect in anyone else's eyes - you don't need approval from anyone - there are only two people involved. you and your mate. If we are happy and think we have the perfect relationship - its perfect, for us.