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Desperately need advice .I messed up my relationship of 8.5years with a loving guy.im 26, he's 27now


Our parents have bad marriages.his parents got divorced recently after 14yrs of horrible arguments. my dad had several affairs. We had a beautiful relationship.he was dedicated to me.All was well until my parents started pressurising me to get married 4yrs ago.im from India where its expected to marry early.Coz of this,I unknowingly pressurized him constantly which led to arguments n short breakups.though the relationship was fine otherwise.He said he's confused about marriage n scared it won't work. Im not financially independent which scares him more.i ended it now but want him back.love him

 

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    dashingscorpio 4 years ago

    Some would say being in a loving monogamous relationship for 8.5 years IS a commitment! Kim Kardashian and Chris Humpries were married for just 72 days. Commitment is not a ring. It's how a couple conducts their lives. Behavior is the key.