Romans 12:16-21 Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits. vs 17. Recompense to no man evil for evil.Provide things honest in the sight of all men. 18. IF IT BE POSSIBLE, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. 19. Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. 20.Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
A person must be aware not to fall into the trap of bitterness. When a person does this they become their own prisoner and a doormat for the devil.
1 John 2:8-11 vs 8 Again, a new commandment I write unto you, which things is true in him and in you:because the darkness is past, and the true light now shineth.(Jesus is the true light) vs 9 He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now. vs10 He that loveth his brother abideth in the light, and there is none occasion of stumbling in him. vs 11 but he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness , and knoweth not whither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes.
Everyone gets hurt at one point or another in life. The key to peace and happiness is found in Jesus. forgiving the ones who have hurt you, Ask God to forgive you for any unforgiveness that has been harbored, Forgive yourself, go to the person that has hurt you in love and talk things over. Matthew 18:15 Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.