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Would you dump your mate if they made a major change in their appearance?


Recently someone posted a question asking if people would dump their mate for gaining a lot of weight or losing a lot of weight. Very often those who admit that they would are considered "shallow". Do you feel morally obligated to stay in a relationship or marriage with someone you are no longer attracted to?

 

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    Escobana 4 years ago

    Dashingscorpio:-) Thanks so much for choosing my answer as best answer. I enjoyed this question and all the other answers given here.

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    dashingscorpio 4 years ago

    An unintentional bad haircut is one thing but an intentional radical change is another thing. If you were completely (repulsed) by your mate's appearance which they planned to maintain, would you stay? That is the real question. :-)

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    dashingscorpio 4 years ago

    Yes I have considered that God is inclusive of both genders. After all GENESIS 1:26 states: “Let us make man in (our) image, after (our) likeness." The word (our) implies more than one.


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    dashingscorpio 4 years ago

    CalebSparks , I believe most people have "deal breakers" no matter what vows they exchanged. Each person is also responsible for their own happiness. If someone were unhappy being with you would you want them to stay? Vow or no vow?


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