When you meet someone for the first time, what makes you friends? What makes you want to know them more?
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Very good input. Thank you all for your answers. I love optimistic people and there is nothing like the pessimist who sucks the life out, is there? :) Enjoying the conversation with my fellow hubbers!
Do you rely on your intuition? How do you know they are "fake"? I like your input!
Oh, my Pauline. I so agree. I've written some songs and I call the front cover of the book "Windows to my Soul" because they truly are. Eyes. Yes. The eyes. It's interesting that so many have answered, all with different answers but all so correct!
I agree. I'm attracted to people who "lean in" and seem interested, ask questions and don't talk about themselves or act "tough" with a cold exterior. Warmhearted.
I think confidence is attractive too. I really like your input.
For all of the obvious reasons each one of you have mentioned, I find I also am drawn to those who are good parents. Recently, I was having a conversation with my 13 y/o daughter about sarcasm (don't like) and it made me think of this question.