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Do you understand the relationship of same sex attraction?


If a woman is attracted to a woman, why does one of them need to be masculine? And if a man is attracted to a man, why does one of them need to be feminine?

 
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4 years ago
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    aliasis 4 years ago

    About "dyke" - I think some women just "reclaim" the word, like gay men calling each other "f-g" or even like black men using the n word. Since you're bi it's a bit different, but I'd be mad if a straight person called me a dyke. :( Still derogatory.


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    JThomp42 4 years ago

    Not if it infringes on my families values. How do you explain to a 4 year old why 2 men are kissing in public?? Advice please?


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    SmartAndFun 4 years ago

    I agree; it is not correct to say every gay relationship "needs" to have that dynamic of masculine and feminine.


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    T. Clifton (BuffaloGal1960) 4 years ago

    This is closer to what I was seeking. I didn't intend for this to be a debate for pro and/or against gays. I was trying to understand. Not comparing but as a straight, I just wouldn't want my man to be dressed as a "woman".

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    T. Clifton (BuffaloGal1960) 4 years ago

    I don't think I am damning anyone by trying to understand. I can't be really very blunt here, but I don't think some are seeing my point.


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    JThomp42 4 years ago

    What about Bi-sexuals?


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    JThomp42 4 years ago

    My question is do you still want to be a woman? Or would you rather be a man? Because you are attracted to women.


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    T. Clifton (BuffaloGal1960) 4 years ago

    That's an interesting concept. Thank you for your opinion.

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    T. Clifton (BuffaloGal1960) 4 years ago

    I think it's deeper than just "appearance", don't you?


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