My boyfriend and I have been together over three years. He came home one day told me he has feelings for someone else, kissed her and asked her for more, she said no.He tells me he loves me and that I'm not the same person he fell in love with.He continued to tell me that he's worthless and wants to be alone. A couple hours later when we both stopped crying, he tells me he loves me and doesn't want to leave me and wants to go to counseling.So when someone tells you their not in love with you at the moment but hopes they can be, do you think it should be worked out or give up on them entirely?
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I hope to take this advice.
Thanks so much. I totally understand the trust thing but in my situations I hope I can trust again, if I can't I don't think I'd ever be able to trust anyone anymore. I just want to try and be in love again with him.
If I was to disappoint you, would you assume that everyone else in the world would disappoint you? If I was to give you a million dollars, would you expect everyone else to do the same? Your boyfriend is one man. Lucky not all men are the same. :)
He's over thirty. I greatly appreciate your advice, thank you.
No, I wouldn't but I would be cautious. If your child does something for you not to trust him or her would you never trust them? I think I need to work on trust in general because I never had it before.
Jorge- Your love of a child is far different than the relationship you speak of. Love of a child is usually unconditional. If your love for them is the same, something is wrong and you will be hurt by one or both.
Thank you, I appreciate it.